Living the Dream

by Melanie on August 14, 2015

in Affirmations, Family, Friendship, Life in the 50s, Memoir, Nonfiction

An occasional series based on stuff that hangs in my room… or my heart.

First, an admission. For most of my life, I wasn’t into affirmations or contemplating affirmations1quotes from people, famous, infamous, or anonymous. I thought it was more important to find my own way, to set my own course.

That all began to change when I returned to Catholicism after a thirty-plus-year absence. It turned out that, who knew, a lot of those famous sayings actually came from the Bible. And how do you not listen to wisdom that’s been around for centuries?

Then in 2013, I wrote a daily devotional about women saints, and delved into the writings of many of them. I found that what many of them had to say (Teresa of Avila, for example, saying she never heard a homily that she couldn’t get something out of) was challenging and inspirational… and resonated with stuff going on in my life.

Now, I’m a fool for a good affirmation. I have several items like the one pictured hanging in my room. My daybook has affirmations too. So, I decided to write occasionally here about what I learn from them on any given day…. starting with the first line of this picture: “Live Your Dream.”

When I was in college, my dream was to live in New York or Boston, working the overnight desk for an international news organization, maybe one day owning a small cottage on Cape Cod. Not that I’d ever been to New York, Boston, or Cape Cod, mind you. But that was the dream.

Then for many years, I dreamed of not having to work so hard. I carried a load of financial obligations when I was married and in the years afterward. It wasn’t that I was unhappy, but I didn’t laugh a lot. There wasn’t time.

Today, I smile when I read this sign before leaving in the morning and before turning out the lights at night. Because I am living my dream. I am blessed with a strong faith community, a good family, wonderful friends, work that challenges and feeds me, good health, a place to sleep, plenty to eat, and enough money to do what I need to do. Who could ask for more? And when those things go away, as things have a way of doing, I pray that I will smile just as much about the new dream.

 

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