Wednesday’s Woman: Blessed Buonadonna de’ Segni

by Melanie on April 10, 2019

in Catholicism, Nonfiction, Saints, Spirituality, Wednesday's Woman

The Basics: Born c. 1181 in Italy; died April 28, 1260, in Italy; beatified in local tradition; feast day, April 28 (husband). Wife, lay Franciscan.

The Story: The story of Buonadonna and her better-known husband, Luchesio Modestini is truly one of loved ones helping each other to grow in Christ. The couple married relatively young, and became engaged in business together, first as bankers and then as grain dealers.

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Their work and their children–at least two sons were born to them–kept them busy, and their purpose in life was primarily to see how much money they could make.

Luchesio was born about the same time as Francis of Assisi. When he met the saint is unclear, but Luchesio heard Francis’ message of poverty and service when he was about thirty. A big lifestyle change resulted; Luchesio sold his business, bought a small farm, and there with his family began living as simply as possible. He spent much of his time comforting and serving the region’s elderly population and those who were sick. This lifestyle change did not initially sit well with Buonadonna, and the two were often at odds. However, after the deaths of their sons, she came to understand her husband’s fire for the Lord and joined him in service. They are often regarded as the first lay Franciscans.

In 1260, Luchesio’s health was failing. Buonadonna worried about being left behind, not only as his widow but also as his spiritual companion. Perhaps it’s fitting they died the same day, him a few hours after her.

What We Can Learn from Buonadonna: When others become passionate about a particular form of service or prayer practice, it can be tempting to discount and even ridicule their new-found ardor. If someone in your life has experienced such a change, ask questions and attempt to understand rather than judging the change on its face.

To Learn More About Buonadonna: Read her story in These Made Peace by Peter F. Anson.

To Learn More About Other Women Saints and Blesseds: Come back next week, or consider buying my book, Sisterhood of Saints: Daily Guidance and Inspiration.

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