Lent 2013, Day 22: Great Expectations

by Melanie on March 6, 2013

in Catholicism, Friendship, Lent, Life in the 50s, Memoir, Nonfiction, Spirituality

I had exited my Metro station and was rushing toward dinner with a dear friend when I first noticed him–a man in his thirties, wearing a camouflage outfit and muttering underĀ his breath. I didn’t give him a whole lot of thought, just nodded when he opened the door for me as I headed toward the skyway bridge. He said something, but I was moving too fast to listen.

A few yards later, I was forced to slow down; the escalator was only wide enough for one person, and about a dozen souls in front of me weren’t climbing. Then I heard muttering behind me. When I turned around it was camouflage man. He grinned at me and said, “Any day’s a good day if you’re not under ground.”

As I walked the two or so remaining blocks to the restaurant, I pondered his words. Maybe I look for the wrong things in my definition of a “good day”–a trouble-free commute, true love, praise from the boss or a friend, even that the weather gods are going to cooperate to give me a day off work. Am I too quick to term a day “horrible” simply because not everything went according to my wishes? Maybe I can learn patience from Metro delays. Maybe I can learn to consider the validity of the feedback I get before I beat myself up for not being perfect in their eyes. Maybe I can shrug off sloughing through the snow.

And maybe, just maybe, I can appreciate God’s wisdom and assistance even when it comes in the form of a muttering man in a camouflage suit who tells me to slow down long enough to be grateful I get to do it all over again the next day.

{ 3 comments… read them below or add one }

Michele Huey March 6, 2013 at 8:57 am

A simple, profound truth that I needed to help me appreciate a normal day. Love you! Keep practicing your gift! (2 Timothy 1:6) Many are being blessed. I know I am!

Victor S E Moubarak March 7, 2013 at 2:03 am

Great advice. Every day is a good day if we get to live it once more.

An elderly friend of mine is constantly in pain. He’s had many illnesses and visits to hospitals. When I ask him how he is he always replies: “Thank God I’m OK, there are many worse than me. Pain is a sign I’m still alive. When the pain stops that’s when we know we’re dead!”

God bless you.

Melanie March 7, 2013 at 7:27 pm

Thanks, Victor. Exccellent reminder!

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