On Mondays, I answer questions frequently asked by those considering a return to the Catholic Church. How do I know this stuff? I was away for more than 30 years myself, and am the co-author of When They Come Home: Ways to Welcome Returning Catholics, a book for pastors and parish leaders interested in this ministry.
I came back to Catholicism when I got married a couple years ago, but feel lonely. Our parish doesn’t have the young people’s or couples’ programs and activities that my non-denominational church had.
Welcome home! We missed you.
It’s true that not all parishes–or churches of any sort, for that matter–offer robust programs for specific 
age groups. Without them, it can be a little hard to get to know people.
A few thoughts:
- Check out your diocesan web site. A nearby parish may offer the type of programs you’re seeking.
- Consider attending some non-age-specific events or trying some general ministries. You may find people your age among the participants… or you may be surprised and pleased to see how much you have in common with folks a generation or two older.
- If you feel called to do so, contact the parish office and talk with the adult faith formation director or director of religious education about helping to organize some of the activities you miss.
Don’t give up.
