Transparency

I didn’t know what a big deal Cec Murphey was when I met him back in the fall of 2002 at the Glorieta Christian Writers’ Conference. I didn’t know he was the author or ghostwriter of a zillion books… and that was before his success as coauthor of Ninety Minutes in Heaven. I didn’t know any of this, and Cec isn’t one to brag about his accomplishments. I just knew that this slight man with a sparkling smile and twinkling eyes was someone I wanted to get to know.

Cec stayed in touch in the following year, and he put me on his prayer list for a year when I was fired as Writer’s Digest editor the following summer. He’d check in periodically; “I’m praying for you! Are you all right?” We still touch base occasionally, and his e-mails, personal or part of a group note, always make me smile.

Cec’s October newsletter was about transparency, about how people comment on how open he is. He goes on to say, “… The more I know who I am, the more open I am to know and understand God at work in my life.”

Knowing Cec has helped me understand that I am who I am… sometimes loud and a bit of a bull in a china shop, sometimes overly sensitive, sometimes kind and gracious…. and that God loves me while I work at becoming more of the last. It’s all right to let the world know you’re imperfect. God doesn’t expect perfection, but it pleases him to see us progress.

By Melanie

Melanie Rigney is the author of Radical Saints: 21 Women for the 21st Century and other Catholic books. She is a contributor to Living Faith and other Catholic blogs. She lives in Arlington, Virginia. Melanie also owns Editor for You, a publishing consultancy that since 2003 has helped hundreds of writers, publishers, and agents.

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